If everybody that meets you says basically the same thing about you, it’s probably you, boo. My mother said it best, no one is so important that EVERYBODY has to lie on you. It may not even be something that you’re doing intentionally. There are times when the best mirrors are the eyes of others. Surround yourself with people who love you and will be honest with you. The wise know how to listen.
Proverbs 12:15 – The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.