Women need security. If it’s not their greatest need, it’s very close to the top. It took me a long time to understand what this really meant, but after MANY failures I get it. It’s more than financial stability or the ability to protect them. It’s more than just ‘not cheating’. Guys, women need US to be secure. They need to be able to trust that we will consistently be STABLE, SOLID, and firmly planted in our love for God and them. They need to know that despite how rough things get, we won’t be moved. They want to know that even when THEY have moments of insecurity they can always rest on us because WE are secure. Fellas, no man possess this strength outside of God. Tap into your REAL power by being vulnerable and honest with God and watch every relationship around you change for the better.
Jeremiah 17:7-8 Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.”