My Mom used to say ‘there is nothing you need to say to me loud that you can’t say quiet’. Learn to have quiet words but big actions. Don’t be the one who is not taken seriously unless you are yelling. Say what you mean. If you say you’re going to do something … Do it. It’s NOT the volume of your words that will make people believe you in the long run. It’s what you DO after your words. Let your consistent actions make WHAT you say more important than HOW you said it.
Proverbs 15:1 – A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.